When the One You Love Believes a Lie Over the Truth

I want to ask a question, how does one believe the lie over the truth? It doesn’t matter what the situation is, just how can someone do that? Does a lie sound better than the truth? Does a person believe a lie just to have something to hold over a persons head; to have something to accuse them of? I really want to know. Does it make them feel good about themselves to lie on someone? Does the person just enjoy making trouble for the other person? What does it profit them to lie on someone, and for the other person to believe the one that is lying on the innocent person? Ridicule is all that is left for the innocent person to receive. I have never been able to understand why people do things like that to others. Some just do not care how they hurt others as long as it makes them feel good about themselves.

When someone says that they love you, they normally mean it unless it is a lie just to get what they want from that person. When the one you love believes a lie over the truth, it hurts deeply…down to the soul of a person. It does something to the way they look at things. It makes them take the word “LOVE” and break it apart mentally, physically, and emotionally. It never sounds the same again. It never feels the same again; it is totally ruined forever!

I always thought that the one that loves you would always believe the one they say they love; I was so wrong. They would rather hold on to a lie than to just let it go and call it what it is. There are those that tell the truth and are still called a lie no matter how much they tell the truth. When a person believe a lie, their eyes have been blinded by the lies to the point they can no longer believe the truth, because they can’t see it, nor can they receive it.

See, that is what the enemy does. He tells the person that the person that is telling the truth is lying, and He makes the lie sound like the truth. He is a deceiver, and there are so many people in the world that has been deceived by Him. I can say that because I experience it all of the time. It does not feel good when you know you are telling the truth and the other person is accusing you of lying. It makes you look at them differently, it takes some of the love from the heart, and every time it happens it takes more and more away until it is all gone. The heart becomes uncaring, unloving, and cold as ice; there is nothing that can make a woman change how she feels once the damage is done. There is nothing that can be said to make her smile…all she knows are tears and a sad heart…not only sad but broken, shattered in millions of pieces. Sometimes when this happens, the heart began to hate to the point of no return. Love means nothing anymore to someone when they have been hurt dramatically. Memories of the past come to the forefront like a blast. The good times of joy and happiness, laughter, and romance. Love at first sight, that was alright. New hopes, new dreams arise…us against the world. What happened? Colors in the rainbow after the rain falls refreshing the earth of our souls, but now dry heat as the desert floor, sand blows on by. Whispers in the wind. Bad memories of the past blows in like a whirlwind on a stormy night. The wind blows with a roar of anger that springs up from the depth of ones soul that has been hurt more times than one! The souls scream out why!! Why now when it was going all so well! Why did those memories arise from the deep dark places of the mind that had been kept at bay forever? Lies and false accusations thrown to the innocent for no reason! Persecuted with no defense on ones side! What is really going on! Swimming in insults that will never be forgotten! Shattered dreams and hopes for the future, a better tomorrow.

Clouds roll in to coat the sky like cotton balls, so fluffy, so pretty, so calming to the senses that was once in a rage of furry. The warmth of the sun dries up the tears of hurt and pain that was once there brings a soft smile to the once hurting face…a soul that was broken but put back together. Never again will one feel that way because of anyone. For her those days are long dead and gone. She is looking for brighter days as she awaits her destiny that lies before her.